How to Host a Friendsgiving Dinner Party
My best Friendsgiving ideas and advice for a dinner party with tablescape, decorations, and recipes. Celebrate Thanksgiving with friends with a potluck style party you can host at home, outdoors, or in a small space.

How to Host Friendsgiving
These ideas for Friendsgiving are tried and true and have been tested by my friends and me for years. Follow this guide for a fun-filled celebration!
We used to have a circle of friends who were all transplants with no family nearby. So we all got together on Thanksgiving day to celebrate with each other and our children.
Those are some of my fondest memories of any holidays over the years. But as seasons change, so do the seasons of life. Our Friendsgiving dinner parties phased out as friends moved away, and lives and families changed and evolved.

What is a Friendsgiving party?
Friendsgiving has grown in popularity over the last two decades, and caught on after the episode of Friends where they spent Thanksgiving together.
The purpose is to celebrate the holiday with friends or neighbors ahead of time, or it can be hosted on Thanksgiving day if you have a group of friends who can’t be with family.
When Should I Host It?
Plan to hold your Friendsgiving dinner a week or two before the actual holiday. Or, you can have it on Thanksgiving day if you have a group who doesn’t have travel plans or family nearby.

What Do You Eat at Friendsgiving?
The meal for Friendsgiving can be very similar to, or the same as that of Thanksgiving. If you’re hosting a dinner party a week or two before the holiday, you may want to scale down the menu or serve up some alternatives.
For instance, make my easy slow cooker turkey breast instead of a whole turkey. Make wild rice dressing instead of traditional stuffing, or serve easy mayonnaise mac-n-cheese instead of the more involved holiday macaroni and cheese. You’ll find more about menu ideas below.
In addition, hosting potluck style means each guest can bring some of their favorite recipes to share with the group.

Expert Tips
These suggestions work when you host Thanksgiving too.
- Start planning in early November. That way everyone has time to plan what dish they’ll bring. This is definitely a potluck party!
- Invitations are casual. The entire nature of Friendsgiving is that you celebrate with good friends. There’s no need to send formal invitations. Just start a text chain, a facebook event page, or send an Evite digital invitation.
- The host usually cooks the turkey. This comes down to simple logistics. It’s easier to cook the main protein at home and let everyone else bring a side dish or dessert to share. You get to try new recipes that other’s hold dear, and there’s an amazing variety of food available.
- Have games or activities available. If you’re hosting a group for friends that don’t know each other well, it’s nice to have something to break the ice. Conversation starters or board games are a good option. The host can provide them or ask guests to bring their favorite.
- Provide take-home boxes for leftovers. If you have a ton of food left over or if guests want to take some of their favorite new dishes they tried, have boxes or tins available to fill.
- Coordinate your menu. Make sure there’s open communication regarding the menu so you don’t have three mac n’ cheese dishes, and no pies! Use a sign up list like SignUp Genius, Evite, or a simple group text.
- Ideas for cooking-challenged guests. Not everyone loves cooking, or is great at it. Assign things like dinner rolls, a simple appetizer, or wine to them. These are also good items to bring to Friendsgiving last minute.
- Special diets. The nice thing about a potluck dinner party is that anyone who needs to follow a special diet can bring their own type of dish. That makes hosting so much less stressful.
Table Décor
Creating a fall table is one of my favorite parts of hosting. If the weather is mild where you live, the patio might be the perfect outdoor setting for a simple Thanksgiving tablescape.

Start with an inexpensive burlap runner, basic white dishes, and coordinating napkins and drink ware.
Line candlesticks down the center of the table and place mini pumpkins on top. This brings in a pop of color and whimsy to the setting.

Centerpiece
Follow these secrets to flower arranging to create a gorgeous but inexpensive fall centerpiece. If you have room, move the show-stopping arrangement to one end of the table where it’s still a focal point but doesn’t impede the view between guests.

Metallic details are the “jewelry” of the table and you can use it in brass candlesticks, gold flatware, gold-painted lucky wishbones, and copper Moscow mule cups.

Use pine cones for a natural element that doubles as place card holders.
The table setting is casual and inviting but still has a holiday feel with a large flower arrangement and mini pumpkins.

Games and Activities
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Be prepared with some fun interactive games to play.
- We love playing Apples to Apples, and it’s suitable for all ages.
- If you’re only playing with adults, Cards Against Humanity is hilarious! Or try the family version.
- A friendly game of poker can be fun too.
- Depending on the day you choose, there may be football on tv to watch.
- At the end of the meal each guest can take their shot at pulling the lucky wishbone with a partner to see who’s wishes will come true!

Easy Party Decorations
When you host a Friendsgiving dinner party, be prepared with these themed decoration ideas. They work well for an outdoor party or for a small apartment.
- Add fall arrangements like simple vases of dry wheat, cattails, or Pampas grass on side tables and buffets.
- Place small pumpkins on tables and use warm fall colors for pillows and table setting.
- Gather natural items together in a basket. Add rustic antlers, pinecones, feathers, etc.
- Make sure to have cozy seating areas ready to gather in. The best part is that most of the work has already been done so when you get together you can relax and have fun.
- Don’t stress too much about seating. You can move chairs and benches back and forth from the sitting area to the dinner table, when needed.
- Set up a bar or lounge area and serve my hot Russian tea for sipping. Add a shot of rum or bourbon to make it extra special for the adults.
- If you’re lucky enough to set up outdoors provide blankets and throws, and wood ready in the fire pit in case the temperature drops. Add pots of mums to the space.


When we celebrated Friendsgiving it was an all day event. Guests would arrive to the host’s home by around 11 am or noon. We’d eat appetizers and sip wine, and talk and play games while the turkey finished cooking. Dinner usually happened around 6 or 7pm.

Friendsgiving Menu
Find a complete list of my favorite Thanksgiving potluck recipes that you can serve or take to a friend’s home.
Fall Drinks
Get the party started with fall cocktails or large batch of drinks.
- Sip on Thanksgiving punch or serve wine.
- Apple fall sangria is a terrific option for a group.
- Serve fall flavored beers and seltzers on ice so they’re easy to grab.
- Set up an iced tea bar as an option without alcohol.
Appetizers
- Nibble on light apple appetizers for a seasonal hors d’oeuvres that’s easy to make.
- These 2-ingredient cheese hors d’oeuvres are perfect bite-size snacks for pre-meal noshing.
- These yummy baked brie bites are fantastic, simple to make, and wont fill you up.
- Set out a party cheese board so guests can grab a bite throughout the day while the food cooks.
Friendsgiving Food Ideas
Bring any of these tried and true recipes to your Friendsgiving party.
This turkey breast is perfect for Friendsgiving where the gatherings may be smaller. And using the slow cooker makes it so easy to make ahead.
Cranberry sauce infused with red wine takes this classic dish to the next level!
Use those butternut squash in season by adding it to this amazing salad full of flavor and texture.
This rich and scrumptious soup is a fantastic starter. Serve it in mini cups or shot glasses for a fun appetizer, and add these stuffing balls on the side.
A vegetarian soup starter course with lots of fall flavor.
Serve this easy delicious dressing with wild rice and ciabatta, on the side instead of stuffing.
This delicious side dish is a classic and feeds a crowd!
This delicious side dish is loaded with two kinds of corn and two kinds of cheese for a mouthwatering sweet and savory combination.
This green bean salad adds something light to the table among all those casseroles. Plus, you won't need the oven for it!
No holiday meal is complete without this traditional southern cornbread spoon bread. It's lightly sweet, it's moist, and it goes great with any meal.
Upgrade your green bean casserole to this amazing broccoli casserole instead.
Is it a side dish? Is it dessert? Who cares. It's truly delicious and has both marshmallows AND crunchy streusel on top so you don't have to choose.
I've been making this easy pumpkin pie recipe for 20 years. It's so good there's no reason to change it up!
It doesn't get much easier than this pumpkin dump cake. The flavors are traditionally Thanksgiving but the presentation is rustic and another great alternative to pie.
Add a cake next to all the pies. This layer cake looks impressive and tastes delectable!
Luscious layers of pumpkin cream, pumpkin cake, and ginger snaps make this fall dessert a showstopper. Both in presentation and taste.
Add another twist on tradition with this pecan pie trifle. Store bought pie meets sweetened cream filling and it's a marriage made in heaven.
It doesn't get any easier than this make-ahead pumpkin flavored ice cream. Serve it alongside pie or on its own.
This is another classic family favorite. Made with sugar and butter and prepared pastry, how can you go wrong?
This southern deep dish chocolate chess pie is perfect for dinner party or holiday dessert. It's easy to make using milk, cocoa powder, and a touch of instant coffee for a rich, indulgent dessert.
Add this apple galette to the table for a different flavor profile. The galette is a fun rustic twist on pie.
These adorable Thanksgiving cupcakes are perfect for your littlest guests. Use store bought cupcakes and decorate them with fruit rollups and Nutter Butter cookies.
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Love this color combo, and you made it look so beautiful as always! ♥
I’m always blown away by your tables capes and party themes! And I am so obsessed with copper dishes right now!
Thanks so much, Nicole!
I know, isn’t the copper so pretty. I love how it coordinates with the gold/brass that’s been so popular too.
Beautiful, just beautiful! And such a great idea for special holiday memories with our friends!
Robin, we have so many good stories to tell from our years of “Friendsgiving” 😉
This looks fabulous! We frequently spend the holiday with friends as we are all so far from family. Thanks for the great ideas.
Yes, Elizabeth, it can be tough to travel at Thanksgiving. This is a great alternative.
I absolutely adore this! I love the mugs, place settings, and the cozy sitting area! And Chris you look adorable! Cute outfit!!
Thank you, Kara. Sometimes I think I entertain just so I can shop and wear a new outfit! LOL
This is gorgeous!! I live in a climate where outdoor Thanksgiving entertaining may or may not work, but I love the idea of an outdoor Friendsgiving!
Same here, Carrie. 70 degrees one week, 40 the next!
I love this! I would come to your Friendsgiving in a heartbeat.
Girrrrrl, we would have a blast! Paul and Chuck could be best buds too!
I love how casual yet elegant this all looks Chris!
Thanks so much, Tori. It’s fun for me to look back and see how my style has evolved over the years.